1. Choose your mediator
• Try and find a mediator who has experience in your type of dispute. Whilst in theory a mediator can mediate any type of dispute, if the matter is technical, we find it helps to have a mediator who understands the issues.
• Experience – all of our mediators have over 10 year’s experience (some over 20!). Make sure you have a safe pair of hands with the experience to get your dispute settled.
• Obtain the other side’s agreement to the mediator, be honest with your reasons and hopefully they will agree!
2. Pick a date
• Mediations can be arranged at short notice (even shorter if it is a virtual mediation)
• Let the mediator know the days you can’t do and they will liaise with the other party and provide you with a shortlist of suitable dates.
3. Sign the agreement to mediate
• You will receive a draft copy of the agreement. It contains everyone’s details and sets out the legalities of the mediation – such as its confidential nature.
• Make sure you sign this in advance of the mediation so that everything can proceed on the day – we like to use DocuSign.
4. Brief the mediator
• You will be asked to prepare a Position Statement. As you may have guessed this sets out your position and how you ideally see the matter being resolved.
• You will also need to provide the mediator with a bundle of documents that support your case (if appropriate). Sometimes the bundle will be agreed with the other side.
5. Exchange statements
• Parties have the option of exchanging their position statement with the other side before the mediation. This helps the parties know exactly where the other is coming from.
• This is entirely optional, and it is common for the position statements to remain confidential to the mediator – this is useful where you may feel your case is not that strong.
6. The Mediation
• The parties will be in separate room – virtual or actual, the choice is yours.
• The mediator will shuttle between the parties, discussing their case, its strength and weaknesses and finding common ground upon which the parties can build a settlement.
• Any settlement will be in writing and signed by the parties.